tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post1633297758398642633..comments2024-03-28T02:59:33.844-07:00Comments on F Yeah Lolita: Ask Miss Caro-Chan: Wearing Lolita in Publiccaro-chanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02816959125315317615noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-88202428647866191522024-02-27T21:39:55.564-08:002024-02-27T21:39:55.564-08:00I LOVE your suggestions for finding the courage to...I LOVE your suggestions for finding the courage to wear ultra-feminine Lolita fashions out in public! 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Or does it make you feel special?Anna Miohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475539455145837265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-34014590850361071012014-09-29T11:53:08.578-07:002014-09-29T11:53:08.578-07:00Even in Japan, the safest country in the world, th...Even in Japan, the safest country in the world, there are tons of Lolita who don't put on their outfit until they get to Harajuku or wherever they're going in Tokyo, because they don't want to deal with the reactions or because the keep their Lolita lifestyle separate. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-67673148164192528012014-09-29T11:48:53.636-07:002014-09-29T11:48:53.636-07:00The sad irony is that we have to get hassled for w...The sad irony is that we have to get hassled for wearing a ton of clothes, yet we also get hassled if we wear less. I'm honestly disgusted at how people feel they have the right to dictate what we can wear as though we owe them something. I'm used to being stared at and people making rude comments or laughing in ignorance, but it's bothered me less and less over the years because I know it's because they can't get their head around someone being "brave" enough to be themselves and express themselves. Those poor, unfortunate souls. That they can sometimes actually react with anger is disturbing, as though you've offended them by not being conformist, and by wearing what you actually like. But the thing is, if you wore exactly what they wanted you to, they would still treat you like crap, and you wouldn't feel good about it because you'd know you weren't being true to yourself. <br /><br />I've actually gotten my mom interested in Lolita (just the shirts for herself, and interest on my behalf), and since she respects me as an adult and trusts my choices, she supports my interest. And really, at the end of the day, the people who care about you will still love and support you anyway. It's one of the saddest things that I can think of when we have to not be ourselves in order to satisfy others who don't care about us or know us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-84581500117381047292014-01-31T16:44:45.776-08:002014-01-31T16:44:45.776-08:00Advising people to avoid making irresponsible deci...Advising people to avoid making irresponsible decisions is not victim blaming. While there is really no such thing as "asking for it", it is still foolish to put yourself in potentially dangerous situations when precautions could (and should) have been taken. Do you really think walking around by yourself in a bad part of town while wearing a very attention grabbing outfit is a smart decision?Eeveenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-91654148597992818672013-07-19T10:39:25.783-07:002013-07-19T10:39:25.783-07:00Hahah omg that is like the perfect comeback to tha...Hahah omg that is like the perfect comeback to that!! I'm seriously giggling about it! caro-chanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02816959125315317615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-33755612709050801532013-07-19T10:37:18.751-07:002013-07-19T10:37:18.751-07:00I had a good laugh at the "LITTLE BO PEEEEEEP...I had a good laugh at the "LITTLE BO PEEEEEEP" part because that happened to me just today! I when I asked my boyfriend why it was such a common insult he said anyone who'd shout something rude at someone on the street just because of what they're wearing clearly ended their education at nursery school and can't think of anything better to say!LadySaphirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13510423520561124395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-38938301152251435242012-12-31T18:10:23.110-08:002012-12-31T18:10:23.110-08:00That's not victim blaming. Victim blaming woul...That's not victim blaming. Victim blaming would be if something bad were to happen to people who go to risky places and saying, "You shouldn't have gone there!" She is just trying to help Lolitas avoid a situation like that all together.Nickihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16292137029976170857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-28755428745346285222012-11-18T17:00:10.969-08:002012-11-18T17:00:10.969-08:00I have to admit, I "play dumb" a lot too...I have to admit, I "play dumb" a lot too when faced with an idiot I can't ignore. I get all "embarrassed and confused" about what they're asking me; and then when they try to explain, they realise how stupid they sound and usually quick give up trying to insult you via insinuation.<br />This also works for "get back in the kitchen" jokes, too... just say "I don't get it"! :)Atarashii Yumeihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818356403966890278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-45356066978147535232012-07-01T08:35:30.970-07:002012-07-01T08:35:30.970-07:00D: yes! Freaking scary!!! Ignoring always seems to...D: yes! Freaking scary!!! Ignoring always seems to help..and if not...call the police :DStrawbewienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-42403342793877883382012-07-01T08:35:29.928-07:002012-07-01T08:35:29.928-07:00I wore lolita to school...and a bunch of old men w...I wore lolita to school...and a bunch of old men were checking me out...I felt afraid...but like you said, "ignore them" which seemed to help!strawbewienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-30453307295193416682012-07-01T08:35:28.914-07:002012-07-01T08:35:28.914-07:00at one point i was wearing lolita in gas station a...at one point i was wearing lolita in gas station and was going in with a friend to get a snack. Then there was a creepy old man who thought we were prostitutes. We ran outside and drove away reeeeaally fast.Oldladyofyouthnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-89204097490876651742012-07-01T08:34:15.969-07:002012-07-01T08:34:15.969-07:00I love this! I'm going to try this on the next...I love this! I'm going to try this on the next person that isn't likely to kill me for it.Themonsterloligonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-51392155696243556662012-07-01T08:34:13.985-07:002012-07-01T08:34:13.985-07:00I love when people ask "why are you wearing t...I love when people ask "why are you wearing that" because I just ask them the dame question and they get angry/flustered. It's really funny to watch!<br />The best though, was when I was walking downtown in full lolita splendor, and a little kid was staring at me while walking holding his dad's hand. He just kept staring and failed to look where he was going, and he walked right into a post! That would have been funny enough, but the post was hollow and metal so it made a really loud clang! (he was fine. don't worry) It totally made my day! xDThemonsterloligonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-50046709361919325632012-07-01T08:33:10.203-07:002012-07-01T08:33:10.203-07:00> If you can, avoid going to risky places alone...> If you can, avoid going to risky places alone while wearing Lolita, try to grab a friend to go with you, or consider bringing a change of clothes.<br /><br />I usually love this blog, but seriously, Caro-chan? Victim blaming?<br /><br />Even if you didn't intend it, that's what this comment came off as, and that is seriously not cool.rokettololinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-72285983796185988052012-07-01T08:32:53.735-07:002012-07-01T08:32:53.735-07:00Having a different fashion style has made me a lot...Having a different fashion style has made me a lot more likely to compliment people I see in public who also dress differently.Sara Sekhmetnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6023134183255884485.post-33363990704080895112012-06-04T02:37:55.428-07:002012-06-04T02:37:55.428-07:00I wish I could get away with wearing lolita in pub...I wish I could get away with wearing lolita in public. It was something I did as a tour guide because it was, as odd as it is to say this, "acceptable" to be "dressed oddly." Most of the tour guides in my city wear goth or pseudo-goth attire while doing tours because most tours are ghost/murder/vampire based so all the tourists think it's "part of the show." <br /><br />The fact that I tend to wear more goth/ega inspired loli worked well, and nobody asked me why I was dressed that way. (Especially since some of the male tour guides were even fancier than me.) <br /><br />My current job has a "uniform." (Eww.) And I just have to deal with it. When I'm not at work, I'm wearing frilly, but not necessarily loli, casual clothes. I think I would wear loli in public more if it wasn't for the type of city I live in. <br /><br />I live in a major metropolitan city where there's just enough people to notice things, but not enough for you to blend into the background, like NYC. And the people hear tend to be less educated and accepting, ESPECIALLY the younger men. I swear, I feel like yelling, "Pedo!" every time I get one that starts making not just "rude," but in some cases, "disgusting" comments to me. <br /><br />I'd say it was just the lolita, but if I don't watch how I dress in CASUAL clothes, I'll have to deal with 10 horn honks and a few "Hey Baby!'s" in a 1 block radius because I'm wearing shorts. (No joke!)<br /><br />If I'm out with other lolita's we normally just ignore everything cause even the stupidest of guys normally won't start something with an entire GROUP of girls. But as an individual, I'd personally fear for my safety if there was more than one guy, and just one of me, and they didn't like that I was ignoring their, oh so charming advances. -_-"Cynthia Leighnoreply@blogger.com